jenni-rose replied to your post: I think I’ve got a bad case of bitch face, people tend to not sit by meSame :( I’ve been actively trying to make my resting face friendlier, so, ya know, potential suitors will approach me. SIGH.Hahah I try to do that too but then I feel like people…
When I was a hostess at a fancy schmancy restaurant my manager used to tell me to “Smile!!” while just standing there. And I was like…so you want me to just stand here smiling like a lunatic at nothing?
Frankly I see nothing wrong with bitchface, other than the, you know, lack of potential suitors (other than you, you charmer you). Except my dad tells me “I suspect you put off a ‘don’t approach me vibe’ that scares guys away” which I think must have to do with le bitchface.
Except when I’ve tried to make myself more approachable in the past I’ve only been approached by creepy old men (who may or may not have been homeless) to tell me how beautiful try think I am. Thanks, creepy 70 year old man in the Burger King, you’ve successfully made me feel skeeved of and worse about myself all at once.
…so maybe that’s where that vibe comes from.
I can’t stand when I see just people standing there with a big goofy grin on their face at like restaurants and stuff because I automatically assume that they’re going to hound me with a thousand and two questions about how my day is rather than let me sit and eat with my friends, stopping by for the occasional drink refill or something.
See I like to consider it not that you put off a “don’t approach me vibe” but that you’re just intimidating. That’s what I tell myself; it’s like I’m so bad ass and self-assured that other people feel like I’ll just immediately shoot them down the moment they make an advancement towards me.
Oh and see your problem there was that you were at a burger king to begin with, you should stay away from burger kings in general nothing good comes from them. If it helps I only get hit on by like creepy guys obsessed with raves, drugs, sex, and lady gaga.
